„Others can only dream of my curriculum vitae.“

„It is difficult for me to follow my colleague and to get a clear picture of this person.“

„I feel more at the mercy of the needs of my body.“

„Have I ever criticized someone who told me that I was doing exactly the same thing?“

„I am willing to give money when it is needed.“

„Professionally I could not decide for a long time where to go.“

„In a relationship my personal independence is very important to me.“

„I feel impulses from myself to subordinate myself to my colleague.“

„I have a close long-term relationship with my doctors.“

„My life partner should not have too many clear and admired qualities.“

„I do not define myself by my possessions.“

„I would like to contradict my colleague angrily.“

„Material possessions are important to remain independent.“

„In a partnership I take responsibility by myself, even if I am not to blame.“

„I feel challenged by my colleague to compete.“

„Physical needs make me feel guilty.“

„In my spare time I prefer contacts in groups to individual relationships.“

„The colleague competes with same-sex people.“

„If I have to give up a position of power, I feel threatened.“

„I don't have much interest in meeting new people.“

„A colleague triggers disbelief in me about his/her unproblematic life situation.“

„My parents or siblings are the cause of many of my problems today.“

„I tend to withhold personal information from others.“

„What prevents me from going off the right track?“

„I like to indulge in a nice feeling.“

„I never know exactly what I should spend my money on.“

„I enjoy my work and experience it as satisfying.“

„My colleague tries to do everything right in a conversation with me.“

„I don't like to share what belongs to me.“

„I would like to give my colleague something, although he/she seems undemanding.“

„I avoid social relationships in which I am reduced to my gender role.“

„A familiar working atmosphere that gives me a sense of security is important to me.“

„While working in a team, I often find myself in conflict with colleagues.“

„At work, I always do everything just right and as well as I can.“

„In his/her reports, a colleague seeks to blame primarily others.“

„The traditions of my family of origin are still very important to me.“

„I enjoy challenges.“

„I follow my development continuously.“

„I am afraid of losing myself in a relationship.“

„In social contact I am rather a chameleon which adapts to the environment.“

„The deep longing of my colleague makes me sad.“

„I care for my body as well as others.“

„Our colleague begins our conversation waiting and ends it abruptly almost without saying goodbye.“

„My parents do not play a big role in my life.“

„It is not my fault that my body is exploited.“

„Who played a special role in my family of origin? “

„I stand by my parents and siblings under all circumstances.“

„I have close friends.“

„I like to surround myself with people who have a desirable status.“

„At work, I prefer clear guidelines on what I have to do.“

„I experience colleagues in conversation as self-sufficient and altruistic.“

„With an attractive house or car I am more in the centre of attention.“

„I give everything for my partner and our family.“

„It is difficult for a colleague to ask for help.“

„Emotional closeness is more important to me than sexual fulfilment.“

„In my childhood or youth I was quite a rebel.“

„I am often an exhausting patient.“

„A colleague has already tried out many roles and positions.“

„When I am ill, I feel worthless.“

„I take care of my parents.“

„Who is the most important person in my life outside my family?“

„I would like to leave my family of origin and be reborn.“

„Among friends, I tend to take responsibility if something goes wrong.“

„When there are problems in my family of origin, I have often asked myself about my guilt.“

„Physically I am not that attractive.“

„When it comes to material possessions, charity begins at home.“

„I feel seduced to decide about my colleague.“

„Despite disappointed requests for care, it is difficult for a colleague to show sadness.“

„Social obligations disturb my independence.“

„A colleague presents himself shyly in conversations.“

„I am like my partner.“

„When I am promoted or praised, I feel guilty towards colleagues.“

„In my free time, I get involved with groups and their cohesion.“

„I enjoy professional competition.“

„It is a pleasure for my colleague to contradict me.“

„I am careful not to burden my colleagues too much.“

„Although I would have career opportunities, I am satisfied with my current position.“

„A long partnership is more about security than about physical attractiveness.“

„If anyone makes rules, it's me.“

„A colleague seems jealous that others get more.“

„I invest relatively much time in my leisure activities.“

„In my family of origin I followed the rules of my parents.“

„In the case of stressful life events, I invest time to plan how I want to deal with them.“

„I am proud of what I own and have built.“

„Whom in my family do colleagues remind me of?“

„I like to control an intimate moment myself.“

„I feel responsible for my colleague.“

„A colleague clings to me.“

„In favour of my parents and siblings I have renounced many things.“

„I live for my job.“

„My colleague appears to me as colourless and a conformist.“

„Having a lot gives me the feeling of being provided for.“

„I feel guilty that my colleague feels misunderstood.“

„For my age I am extremely efficient, fit and youthful.“

„I still get a lot of support from my parents and relatives.“

„I would like to give colleagues the feeling of being valuable despite mistakes.“

„I never get sick.“

„I fear my colleague will try to determine me with power.“

„In my social environment (neighbours, friends) I have a rather subordinate position.“

„My colleague is particularly demanding in conversations.“

„My basic physical needs are not so important to me.“

„A colleague does not seem to require much care from me.“

„Others react to stress more calmly than I do.“

„I dream of success, wealth and power.“

„I am destined for greater things in life.“

„Those who sacrifice themselves for the family will eventually get good things back.“

„In social groups, I tend to stay in the background.“

„Does my self-esteem actually comes from inside of me, or from what others think of me?“

„What kind of person am I?“

„At first I thought it was wonderful and desirable, and now it is suddenly uninteresting.“

„Possession and money are important instruments of power.“

„If I could be promoted, I would be afraid of losing support.“

„A colleague does not know the answer to the question "Who am I actually?“

„I take what I physically need.“

„I have the feeling in friendships that I give more than I take.“

„When I am ill, I prefer to suffer rather than be helped.“

„I tend to be resentful of my partner's negative actions and behaviors.“

„Even if being determined by others is sometimes offending, I can bear it.“

„In my job I give everything, even if it sometimes endangers my health.“

„In social groups I am the top dog or the queen.“

„My colleague talks to me with intensive eye contact.“

„In a relationship it is difficult for me to say "no".“

„There were rarely conflicts and rivalries with my parents and siblings.“

„A few possessions are sacred to me.“

„With friends and acquaintances I am regarded as generous.“

„In my spare time I spend a lot of time with my parents and relatives.“

„I could not find a role model among my parents and relatives.“

„I can deny or ignore situations that are painful.“

„I appreciate myself by comparing myself with others.“

„If something goes wrong with me professionally, it is mostly due to the circumstances.“

„It is scratching my self-esteem that I do not possess as much as others.“

„My professional constellations change frequently.“

„When I am ill, my need for attention is difficult to fulfil.“

„Since the doctors treating me do not understand me, I often switch to another practice.“

„What matters to me is not where I come from in my family, but only where I want to go.“

„I am afraid that the fear of being close to a colleague could stand in the way of our cooperation.“

„I notice the joy in my colleague when it comes to controlling others.“

„Social commitment helps me to balance feelings of guilt.“

„My involvement in leisure activities could be more continuous.“

„I have a higher attachment to my opposite sex parent.“

„To have is safer than to be.“

„When I get sick, I am usually to blame for it myself.“

„A colleague seems irritated when it comes to restrictions.“

„I am hurt if my professional commitment is not appreciated.“

„I know what I think or feel about certain things.“

„Even if I have a lot of material things, it doesn't make me more attractive.“

„I have a clearly defined clothing style and I switch very little.“

„I find the idea of becoming physically less attractive in old age terrifying.“

„When I get gifts, I think about what I can give back.“

„I max out on my possibilities at work.“

„I have the feeling that I have to justify myself to my colleagues.“

„In conversation, my colleague shows idealizing admiration for me.“

„I would like to apologize to my colleague.“

„In my job, it's very important for me to make a long-term commitment.“

„In the last 5 years I have remained essentially the same person.“

„It happened quite often that friends or acquaintances took advantage of me.“

„In the end, I'm afraid I won't suffice and will be dumped by my colleagues.“

„People in my social environment often forget my name.“

„Work is important to me.“

„When I am ill, I need a lot of attention.“

„I enjoy spending time alone.“

„When I am ill, I just have to endure it.“

„I am not surprised that I often get sick.“

„Without my possessions I am not that worthy.“

„It is difficult for a colleague to let go of others despite disappointment.“

„A colleague talks to me turned away with superficial eye contact.“

„I try to avoid becoming ill by all means.“

„I strive to be in a management position.“

„In relationships, I want my partner and I to develop simultaneously.“

„Money enables me to be the way I want to be.“

„Among friends and acquaintances I quickly find the culprit if something goes wrong.“

„The determinants of the family should adhere to firm rules.“

„A colleague obviously enjoys defiant behaviour.“

„Belonging to a group with a team spirit is very important to me.“

„My life partner must have clear and admirable qualities.“

„When I am ill, nobody should see me if possible.“

„It is almost impossible to stay healthy in today's world.“

„I am clueless when I should describe the character of my colleague after our conversation.“

„My colleague idealizes me in such a way that I feel devalued.“

„During a conversation, my colleague deliberately conceals the uncertainty about his own identity.“

„I assert my head in the family. “

„When my professional performance diminishes, I usually have missed something.“

„In a relationship I like to follow my partner.“

„A colleague is small and inferior.“

„In my family I have always been the darling.“

„In conversations with colleagues there are often misunderstandings or contradictions.“

„I use my possessions or money to draw attention to myself.“

„I like to work.“

„I identify very much with my group and fulfil its clichés.“

„When it comes to my career, there is not always time for consideration for others.“

„My view of other important people is strongly influenced by the opinions of others.“

„I want to relieve colleagues of responsibility.“

„It is difficult to describe what makes my parents stand out among other parents.“

„I prefer stable, non-competitive friendships.“

„To get out of relationships I need financial security.“

„When I make decisions, I consider the needs of others.“

„In the event of illness and accidents, I think about how I can get more care.“

„I have the feeling that my colleague wants to submit to me.“

„If I feel guilty, it helps me to give the other person a gift as compensation.“

„In a relationship I am likely to decide about the common life arrangement.“

„I use the membership in social groups and associations to exert influence. “

„Many colleagues cannot cope with my ambition.“

„Less wealthy people just have to line up at the end of the queue.“

„My life partner should come from a family in which I feel comfortable.“

„I am something special.“

„My partner is much older than I am.“

„My body gets as little as it deserves.“

„I control my body.“

„My colleague is ashamed of the events depicted.“

„Other people think better of me than I do.“

„Sometimes I give away so much of my possessions that it is risky for me.“

„A colleague alternately attracts and fascinates me and embarrasses and disappoints me.“

„I am constant in my work activity.“

„I am surprised and disappointed when other people apparently do not recognize my importance.“

„My colleague tries to answer my questions exactly.“

„I have the feeling that my colleague emulates and copies others.“

„When I am ill, I appear weak and childlike.“

„It is very important to me to keep my body young and attractive through sport and nutrition.“

„It worries me that my own body needs constant care.“

„I get into trouble because my colleague behaves so submissively.“

„When you are sick, the care is often not enough.“

„People admire me because I have such a great partner.“

„My colleague presents herself in a playful manner.“

„I don't fall for the role a colleague is playing.“

„I feel the need to especially confirm my colleagues.“

„I can't do anything with failures.“

„A good work relationship is more important to me than competition.“

„It is very important to me to be in contact with my parents as often as possible.“

„In the event of illness, I always follow the advice of my doctor.“

„And if something goes wrong?“

„I experience a colleague as particularly seeking closeness.“

„In a relationship I do a lot to be attractive for my partner.“

„Thoughts about a separation from my partner are difficult to bear.“

„In spite of my efforts I could not fulfill the expectations of my parents.“

„If I can take advantage of my social contacts, I will.“

„I tend to admire colleagues.“

„A colleague seems childlike in conversations.“

„I have few, but extremely close social contacts.“

„I am afraid that my colleague might follow my example too much and not find her own way.“

„Our colleague begins our conversation intensively and in the end finds it difficult to break away from the conversation.“

„Professionally, I prefer my niche with a high degree of independence.“

„I feel kept at a distance by my colleagues.“

„My partner should be very attractive.“

„I often found it difficult to admit my own faults towards my parents.“

„Good relationships with my fellow human beings are more important than material prosperity.“

„I would like to confront or condemn a colleague with responsibility.“

„In case of illness, it is the others who know what is best for me.“

„It does not bother me if others pass me professionally.“

„I often feel materially disadvantaged or deceived.“

„If you have something, you are something.“

„I feel a feeling of boredom towards my colleagues.“

„When I take the blame, my colleague seems angry or aggressive.“

„A colleague seems irresponsible and cold to me.“

„Physically I am active above average.“

„The power of the parents is necessary for care.“

„In my job I am valuable and difficult to replace.“

„When I am ill, I fully fulfil the role of the sick person.“

„My social contacts are rather short-term and change according to need.“

„I don't have an explicit clothing style, but like to follow trends.“

„I have the feeling that doctors tend to do more harm than good when you are ill.“

„When I am offended, I plunge into work.“

„As a rule, I know better than my doctor what I need when I am ill.“

„When I am ill, I like to be mothered.“

„In my great family I am quite insignificant.“

„How do I get along with the people at my workplace?“

„I certainly belong to the top people in my profession.“

„A colleague reacts irritated when I question something in a conversation.“

„At work, I know how to undermine requirements unnoticed.“

„All I expect from my body is that it works.“

„Despite my close ties to parents and siblings, my childhood lacked vitality.“

„Problems in my partnership and family are mostly the fault of the others.“

„A colleague wants to leave the control of the conversation to me.“

„You are what you wear.“

„In his reports, a colleague looks for guilt predominantly in himself.“

„A colleague apologises to me about her behaviour.“

„I left home early.“

„My colleague shows changing, sometimes dramatic emotions in the conversation.“

„I tend to idealize my family of origin.“

„I feel exploited by my colleagues.“

„Are my leisure activities satisfying for me?“

„My colleague blames me for something not going as expected at our appointment.“

„I tend to do things in a certain way.“

„When projects fail, it usually has nothing to do with me.“

„I tend to judge friendships more personally than they actually are.“

„A colleague does not feel well in his skin.“

„Other people often say that I talk too much about work in my spare time.“

„When I am ill, I never know how to behave.“

„When I get sick, I usually endure the symptoms.“

„In different situations I am always a different person.“

„Time with my significant other is more important to me than sport and fitness.“

„I feel insecure in my professional role.“

„Sometimes others get angry without me knowing why.“

„With my partner I always find myself in situations where I am guilty.“

„My friends sometimes experience me as demanding or exhausting.“

„Although I am generous, I expect something in return.“

„I feel the impulse to get a colleague from his high horse.“

„A colleague is very contradictory in various aspects of her personality.“

„I am what I own.“

„A colleague doesn't know what to do with himself.“

„When I am ill, I am an easy patient.“

„In a relationship I am often the person who clings.“

„Most potential partners are simply not good enough for me.“

„I am insecure when I try to find out what other people think or feel.“

„I feel sorry for my colleague because of the self-sacrificing attitude.“

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